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Check out another great write-up, where I make an appearance. Finally, my inquisitive nature sated with useful and well thought out information.
Also, I loved the part about comparisons. I recently had a late night revelation that I’d been comparing myself to people my entire life and that simple unknown act has been the thing holding me back. Well, no more comparing myself. I’m going to be the best me I can be, despite what others are or have done before.
Alcohol and sleeping… or the lack thereof. How many times have you gone out the night before and the next morning you wake up early? Or you feel groggy the next day (even if you went to bed at a decent hour)? I have. I figured I’d do some research and do us all a favor and get to the bottom of this bottle.
First: Let’s discuss grogginess….
You know what it is. That feeling you get when your body and your brain are 5 steps behind your intentions. It’s always too bright, too loud, too cold, too hot, just too much.
The way we get rejuvenating rest is in the nature of how we fall asleep. Not only does alcohol dehydrate us from the toxins literally pulling the hydrating resources from our body, but we’re up periodically through the night due to nausea or trips to the bathroom. Then there’s how we actually sleep. Sleep occurs in 3 stages. Melanin is released and we feel tired, then we we fall in to light sleep or REM sleep. Once we pass through REM sleep, we go in a deep sleep. When we drink REM is skipped and we go directly from tired to deep sleep. This is detrimental to deep sleep cycle because that’s when the body restores itself, but since the alcohol is interrupting the process you are now going from deep sleep to REM, essentially working backwards. Which brings me to the next issue…
Late to bed early to rise, why? Well here’s the deal. Remember a second ago when I said we essentially move backwards from a deep sleep to a light sleep? Well, it’s a lot easier to wake up when you’re in a light sleep stage, this is why you find yourself awake earlier than usual most times. When you drink excessively then go straight into deep sleep you are literally reversing the process so the entire time you’re asleep while drunk you are essentially waking up the whole time. Wild eh?
It also causes unsettling dreams. While you may not remember them, but if you do they’re usually not restful dreams. But hey, I always have weird dreams… even when I’m sober (yes it happens, but not too often ;P)
On a side note, if you do find yourself not being able to sleep, don’t go rifling through your medicine cabinet trying to find a sleeping pill or any other sleep inducing drug. The reason for that is alcohol and sleep aids are both depressants and slow down your breathing. When you take these two together they act as a powerhouse and it is possible to slip into a coma while you’re sleeping. Forget being late for work… you’re going to be late for life…
Speaking of comas… a way more serious form of deep sleep, there are a lot of things that happen during the deep sleep phase of your circadian cycle. One I’m sure you’re all too familiar with is snoring.
Alcohol is a depressant, therefore a relaxer. It relaxes your mind, your morals , and your muscles. Muscles like the ones in your neck and throat, narrowing the passage causing an obstacle for air to get through. The louder the snore the harder it is for the air to get through.
It doesn’t stop at just the muscles in your neck being relaxed, alcohol also relaxes the muscles in your bladder, leading to… yup you guessed it you’ll end up like this dude. You can also vomit in your sleep so try not to pass out on your back or you might choke, you may also sleepwalk, or sleep-fart, and all types of other embarrassing things.
The upside to all of this is you had an awesome night (I hope) and since alcohol causes insomnia you may not sleep and will avoid snore-peeing your pants!! CHEERS!!
Hope that helps!
Don’t I know it’s true! I procrastinate all the time! I’m changing that soon though … ;)
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about what I could post. I didn’t have much of an idea, but there has been a concept continually racketing around in my head and that’s health. Not health in the medical sense, per say, but health in a healthy way of living way.
Now, I know what you’re thinking… the way I drink, what would I know about living healthy? Well, first I know that my assuming that you’re judging me is not a healthy way of living.
Assumptions put me down and don’t aid in helping me maintain a positive attitude about myself which leads to me not having a positive outlook on the world and even though the world is easily navigated through negative eyes and filtered through a hardened heart, doesn’t mean that’s how it should be.
Keeping that in mind it doesn’t mean that we have to constantly be optimistic and accepting of all things troublesome. That would be, dare I say, inane. What it means is we need to learn to filter out the things that cause us pause and learn to factor in the things that keep us better off. Let’s be honest, you can’t control everything in the world, but you can control what you allow to affect your world.
Cynicism (derived from the word Cynic), can be our greatest ally and and our weakest attribute. Maintinning such a view of the world, all day every day takes more of a toll than we realize. It causes mental anguish, which leads to stress, which leads to aggressiveness whether it be passive or active, that leads to health (medical) problems, which leads to financial woes, and you get the picture. Simply by changing your outlook, the lenses you view the world through you will find relief and happiness. I don’t mean blind happiness or ignorance or denial, but well informed well thought out happiness.
This is not an easy task. It was a transition I made a few months back and I am still working on it. People think the hardest thing to do is change another person when in fact, it’s changing yourself, but once you do you will be better off.
I’ve linked a few articles I find helpful and informative.
Now those are all opinions, albeit, educated opinions, but thoughts of others none-the-less. The point is to read their thoughts and start to generate your own, even if you disagree at least you’ll be thinking about it and that’s the first step.
There are a lot of things I notice going out to bars, restaurants, clubs, etc… like how the people are dressed which usually directly correlates with how much the drinks cost, the available seating, music, and the types of specials the bars have.
I think mostly about the etiquette of drinking. Just because you plan on loosening up doesn’t mean there aren’t rules to be followed. Let’s start with the more well known rules.
Now, I’m not trying to seem braggadocio, because I’ve been tossed out of numerous bars, cussed out numerous bartenders and doormen, I’ve broken glass, danced on tables, spilled all over, and so on and so forth, but I didn’t stay that way. I got better everyday that’s not only drinking etiquette that’s life’s secret.
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Beer or liquor? One is quicker and the other will make you thicker. Whiskey will make you tipsy, but how much until you tip right over… that is from a caloric standpoint, not from intoxication.
Sure, one beer won’t give you love handles; neither will two or three… in a week or so, but when you’re imbibing one after the other after the other after the other after… wait how did I get home? Those calories add up and every year after your 18th birthday your metabolism gets slower and slower (if you don’t lead an active lifestyle). The caloric intake is dependent on the type of beer or liquor you’re drinking. The rule of thumb is the darker/the higher the ABV (alcohol by volume) the more calories because of the high sugar content, that goes for liquor and beer. Below are two links, one for beer calories and one for liquor calories, check them out and find out how much you’ve put away in a night. Below that is a quick reference chart. (Fun fact 3500 calories = 1 pound)
Below is a quick chart, if you will, not as specific as the ones above. Taken from http://www.barnonedrinks.com/tips/reference/calorie_counter.html
|Category or Alcohol (ABV%)||Calories per Ounce|
|Wine – Red or White (12)||23 cal.|
|Champagne (12.5%)||26 cal.|
|American Beer (non-micro: 4.5%)||12 cal.|
|Liqueurs (17-24%)||86-105 cal.|
|80 proof Liquor (40%)||65 cal.|
|86 proof Liquor (43%)||70 cal.|
|90 proof Liquor (45%)||74 cal.|
|Malibu Rum||68 cal.|
|Sweet Sherry||43 cal.|
|Medium Sherry||37 cal.|
|Dry Sherry||37 cal.|
|Southern Comfort||61 cal.|
|Tia Maria||52 cal.|
|90 proof Liquor (45%)||74 cal.|
So… now that you know, how’s you’re night going to change? Or how’s your diet plan going to be rearranged?? Or don’t you care? Hey, if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it… right?
Puerto Rico! Supposedly it can party longer and harder than Mexico … having been to both places I have to disagree and agree at the same time. Here’s why… Mexican’s usually choose Tequila as their drink of choice while Puerto Ricans choose rum. Rum will make the party last longer, but it won’t necessarily make a party go harder. This all depends on how much you’re drinking of course.
Let’s start with the rums I got a chance to imbibe.
Don Q – Cool name, harsh on the pallet. It’s great for mixing, painful to take shots with.
Bacardi Reserva Limitada – Aged 12 years this is Bacardi’s call play to the big guys. Made smooth to sip on. Some say add a little water, but I say don’t. If you’re a whiskey, bourbon, or anything of the like type of drinker then this is for you. This is also only available for purchase in very few places in the world.
Ron de Barrilito 3 stars- I found it a little strong AT FIRST, but once you get that initial drink in it smooths right on out. It’s nothing like the Reserva Limitada, but it’s a nice sipper. It goes well in a coke mix too.
Beer - Medalla Light: The only Puerto Rican Beer I had a chance to have was the Medalla. I would akin it to Miller Lite, but slightly stronger taste, more hoppy. It’s not bad though for $10 for a 12 pack.
The Bacardi Distillery was pretty exciting, easy to get to, and free! Plus you got two free drinks of your Bacardi choice for free upon arrival!! My favorite part of course. After you get your tickets you have a few minutes to enjoy your two free drinks (they also have food and more drinks for purchase). After a little time goes by they load the group on the tram and the guide tells you a little bit about the bat statue you will ride past to get to the touring distillery, the first of MANY Bacardi bats you will encounter***. Once inside the touring building you will see something like this…
Once you move out of the main room they take you into a theater will you will watch the history of Bacardi and get to know the company better. Then they take you into another room with barrels, instructional vids, and more. After a few minutes in there you go into a large VIP bar room and a highly captivating bartender gives you the ins & outs of how to make Bacardi drinks.
Then the tram take you to the gift shop where you can purchase all sorts of exciting Bacardi drinks and memorabilia.
Once you’ve completed the tour the tram takes you back to the gift shop. The tours go from 9AM-4:30PM and last about an hour.
Here are some drink recipes:
Mojito- Mint leaves, ounce and a half of clear Bacardi, mash together, add soda, shake, pour and serve
Cuba Libre (AKA Free Cuba)- Bacardi & Coke
Daquari (there’s a fun story to this, but you’ll have to go on the tour to find out ;P)- Clear rum, lime juice, and soda on the rocks (be sure to shake it before you pour it)
(My own creation) Tropirican – Clear rum (Coconut rum works great), fruit punch, pineapple soda, and mango-peach juice. mmmm!
I have to say I did enjoy the rum, it went perfect with the cool, laid back, sunny, atmosphere. I did’t buy much from the shop except a bottle of Bacardi Coconut because I wanted to mix it up that night. ***Here’s how the bat came to be the icon of Bacardi. The creator of Bacardi, Facundo Bacardí Massó, bought a small distillery due to the growth in popularity of his rum. At the time he was looking for an icon to put on his product. That’s when his wife brought it to his attention that there were many many fruit bats in the newly purchased distillery … the rest is history…
“Puerto Rico is beautiful and it’s great because they accept American money and speak English, but you forget you’re in America while you’re there.” – Charlie from the airport bar
I love airport bars for two reasons…
Reason 1: Everybody there is either going somewhere or on their way home – so you automatically have that in common.
Reason 2: “Are you going somewhere or are you on your way home?” is a great ice-breaker!
When I sat at the bar I told Charlie I was going to San Juan and that was the first thing he said. How exciting to hear that when you’re going somewhere you’ve never been before. Not only did I learn about the best restaurants to go to in Puerto Rico (Conrad’s in Old San Juan), but also great sites to visit.
I’m going to post about the trip and the fun events here and about the drinks in another post.
Amenities: Beautiful beach views, 2 outdoor pools, 2 outdoor hot tubs, gift shop sell beer and liquor, cabana rentals, basketball courts, tennis courts, bonfire pit, pool bar, beach, volleyball in & out pool, golf course, open field for sports, on site car rental, on $ite casino and restaurants, bars, wifi in lobby, many ballrooms/convention centers, shuttle bus to other sites on property
Positives: Clean, large resort many places to relax and explore, iguanas come close enough to touch, you can be on the beach at any time (even though it says 5pm, you can be out there whenever), can be in pool/hot tub at any time, friendly staff, relax atmosphere,
Negatives: EXPENSIVE!!!, not much to do/see outside hotel amenities, everything closes at 2 (except beach and pool), sand fleas in the rooms bite, no wifi in the rooms, and renting movies for &16.99 is not worth it.
Puerto Rico – click here for more pictures and sites!
Suggestions: Rent a car, visit El yunque (swim in the waterfall and hike up the trail!), when you get to the waterfall instead of staying where the majority of the tourists are go to the right and use the rocks as stepping stones to go two levels lower… you will find you’re own personal waterfall/grotto. If you have a gaming console and like to play bring it, the TV’s allow for the hookup.
Try to eat outside the hotel is you don’t want you’re wallet to come back flatter than an unlucky iguana crossing the highway (and the driving there is… let’s go with exciting and spontaneous). A great place close to the hotel is called Antojitos they have a wonderful lunch special, breakfast is great, and the dinner is good too and all very affordable. At the hotel breakfast buffet is $24/person and dinner buffet is $35/person.
If you’re prepared to go on a 2 hour trek you can visit La Cueva Clara a legitimate cave with bats, stalactites, stalagmites, a river running under and an audio tour with an guide through it. Also Dark Knight was filmed there. About a hour and a half walking tour choc full of trivia at $15/person
Buy a 12 pack outside the hotel at Ralph’s on highway 3 (right near the hotel) for $10.99 or pay $16 at the hotel for a 6 pack…
All in all it was a fantastic. I would go again. Heck! I’d live there. I know some Spanish. While most of the people there are bi-lingual it’s still good to know some just in case. Here’s a short list of some of the Spanish you’ll probably want to know heading in.
Hablas inglés? - Do you speak english
Donde esta baño? – Where’s the bathroom
Tienes bañ0? – Do you have a bathroom
Donde esta la fiesta? – Where’s the party
Me duele en me cabeza – My head hurts
Mas cervezas por favor- More beers please!
Queremos a la playa – We want to go to the beach
izquierda – Left
Derecha – Right
Salida – Exit
Este – East
Puedo- Can I …
Donde es- Where is…
Use those few tips and you should find yourself having a great time in Puerto Rico!
What a year this has been!! WOW!! Every year I manage to do it better than the previous year and I never even plan on it. I could tell you my top 211 favorite things about 2011 and not even be close to how many awesome events happened/I can remember. For now, I’m only going to drop my top 5 on you, but trust me I really want to do more, but I don’t want to encumber you with information. Click the title to each to get the full story
I spent the beginning of 2011 in Mexico. I blacked out at the New Year’s party, but I heard I was running all over the resort and was even kicked out of the bar… in Mexico. I got kicked out of the bar IN MEXICO! It was a BLAST as far as I was concerned and was definitely the correct way to kick off a year filled with fantastic events.
Most people only celebrate Memorial DAY, but in true Feisty fashion I celebrated for an entire month. What a month oh what a month. I do recall sitting on my roof with Stagefight talking about the amazingness that is our lives. Looking out over Central Park and Columbus Circle, filled with merriment and mirth.
The name says it all. What a wonderful Cinco De Mayo!
I don’t know about most, but I celebrate my birthday for a week, because a day is just not long enough for all the fun I need to have. It was a wonderful week. I’m so glad I wrote it down.
My number one ALL TIME FAVORITE 2011 EVENT IS …… DRUMROLLLLLLLLLLL
You know how when you’re like “Hey, I’m gonna drive to Ohio and meet some porn stars.” and then you do? Yeahhh… I do too.
So these are my top five favorite events of 2011, there are so many more. Like Halloween, that Warehouse party that ended with a fire extinguisher fight at 10 in the morning, when I became a fugitive, the Superbowl party, when I went to LA, when I went to Arizona, when I went to Fire Island during Hurricane Irene… Ugh! I could go on & on & on, but those five stand out as my favorites. I’m going to miss 2011 dearly, but I CANNOT WAIT to see what 2012 holds. Here’s to only the best, the fun, the excitement, the wildness and more. HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL!!!
Here is the post for my 2010 Faves
New year brings new opportunities. I’m always looking for new liquors to try. Here are just a few you may or may not have heard of that I found to be rather interesting.
I found out about Rose from Houseparty.com. The good folks over at Courvoisier are trying to get the word out about this French wine infused version of their regular Courvoisier. It’s a nice easy drink. Great for the holidays because it’s ready to serve chilled out the bottle and great for parties.
I’m sure you’ve heard the rumors.. From green fairy to wild hallucinations and in my experience none is true. The closest I have ever come was doing four shots of absinthe without adding water and passing out. It can be good though. Add sugar, water, and sip sip. It will get you drunk that’s for sure, but since it’s rare to find authentic absinthe that contains wormwood you probably won’t be hallucenating from it.
Maybe you’ve tried it maybe you haven’t. Moonshine has so many variations… I like to think of it as hillbilly vodka. It comes in flavors as far as the tongue can taste.
So have people bring something they never tried before to the party. It’s a new year time for something new!